How Many Dates Should I Wait Until I Have Sex
Dear friend, are you dating a great guy who's everything you're hoping for? Has he suggested or tried to get more intimate with you? Do you feel conflicted between waiting for sex and just going for it? Do you have the fear that he might dump you right after sex? How long should a woman wait before she has sex with someone? If you have any of the above questions, this is the article you must read. It will answer your questions.As discouraging as it sounds, the reality is that the majority of men will disappear, if you have sex with him too early and too soon. Sometimes, guys will tell your stories of how they had a successful long-term relationship with a woman who they slept with on the first date. You may think that he's different. But what he's not telling you is the other 99 women he never called again, after sex.
With all that being said, what's a good period of time to wait? How long is long enough? The rule of thumb is 2 months of regular dating. By regular dating, I mean meeting at least once per week for a proper date. And you should see some sincere efforts from his part to take you out for the more important Friday or Saturday night dates.
After 2 months of regular dating, it should be quite clear to the man that you're selective and don't just sleep with anyone. I sometimes even tell my girlfriends to wait for 3 months, just to be sure. Although you should definitely wait for sex, during the 2 months of regular dating, you should be physically affectionate. You can hug him, kiss him, and cuddle with him. Let him know that you're a passionate woman, even though you're selective.
Ladies, you're a grown-up woman and you can do whatever you want. But, a smart woman, even in her most passionate moment, always considers how men think and asks what is the most effective way to attract and keep a high quality man of her choice.
